Everyone is going through their own battles, Even those we call our Idols. We are all human. Not one is immune to the struggles of life. No one was made to be perfect.
We all face many trials and tribulations in life. We often feel like those are nothing but a burden that we can't seem to get rid of. And we are all so focused on us, our needs, our cries out for help. That we completely forget a very important piece of our world. Our Idols; Now I know but they are "famous", "Rich", how could they possibly be affected by the Trials of life right? But they are Immune to life's problems right? Once your a "celebrity" all of life's problems just *poof* go away right? Think again. Everyone in this world is going through something right now. We have no clue what anyone is going through. Our "Idols" Included go through things. No one ever will face the absolute things as the other. We may face similar problems, but never the same. There are many of those that are very well known to society that have dealt with things like Mental Disorders
and they even date way back in the day. One of those was our very own President #16 Mr. Abraham Lincoln. It is said that He himself had periods where he faced profound sadness and even suicidal thoughts. Today, we now know that Mr. Lincoln was battling what we know now as Clinical Depression. He dealt with Anxiety attacks which come to find out ran in his family. Another well known Historical Figure is none other than Nikola Tesla it was reported that Tesla suffered from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (also known today as OCD) throughout his life as an Adult. He loathed jewelry and objects that were round, and would not touch hair. It's said that He was very obsessed with the number 3, would polish every dining implement he used to his perfection, using exactly 18 napkins, The Artist we all know and love even to this day, Mr. Vincent Van Gogh, Suffered from eccentric personality and unstable moods, recurrent psychotic episodes during the last 2 years of his extraordinary life, It is said that He sadly took his own life at the age of 37 July 29th, 1890. It is suspected that he suffered from things such as Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Epilepsy and Schizophrenia There are many of those we know that have or are suffering their own battles in life. There is not one person on this planet that was made to be immune to the struggles of life. Even those we look up to now, they are going through something just as we are. We may not see it or hear about it. But that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. When it comes to "Social Media" a big issue that takes place is that, often times ( more than often sometimes) the world of the Social Media likes to make it seem like those we call "Celebrities" are "Superhuman" that they have the answers to everyday struggles. That they are Immune to the struggles of life. But they aren't they go through things just the same as you and I. We just don't always hear about it. More and more over the years our "Idols" have been coming out with how they have been struggling with some form of mental illness or just that they have been struggling. They don't have the answers to everything. They will do what they can to help those around them. Give advice if they can. Send a positive message to someone in need and be there for anyone who needs someone at that given moment. If possible. But it doesn't mean they have the answers for everything. They want us all to know that they understand. We are all human no one is different. We may have our separate likes/dislikes. But we are still all human nonetheless. ( Unless I'm talking to Aliens then thats a whole other ball game🤔😉😏) . We all have something that makes us who we are. We are all going to make mistakes in life. But a mistake doesn't mean the end of the world. Making mistakes means nothing more than you are human. It brings our Idols pleasure to hear that they and/or have helped someone in some way or another. They just want to make the world just a little bit better for the lost and lonely. They just want to be treated like Humans, as they are and always have been. Ask any Idol "celebrity" we know today and I am sure they'd tell you that they have struggled growing up too. There is more to someone than what you see on the internet or hear from others. Also know that people do change, no one wants to be forgotten, alone, unwanted. We all have the same goals in life at the end of the day. To make those around us Proud of who we are. To prove to those that doubt us that we have what it takes to be successful. We all want to be loved, wanted. We want to know that others like what we do. We all want Hope for another tomorrow and hopes that it is better than the day before. Before you judge someone be it Rich or Poor, Famous or Not, Think Do you know what's going on with them? Do you know why they are feeling that way? Do you know why they act the way they do? Have you tried to get to know them instead of just basing your opinion on what you see rather than what you learned? Try getting to know someone before casting blame or judgement. Because in the end You, yourself would not want someone judging you simply based on how you come across, or look like. or act. Everyone wants to be understood, but not many stop to listen long enough to get the full story. You hear parts or pieces of it or something that sounds good and run with it. Listen to the whole story, listen to their voice. Even if it seems like its of no interest of yours what happened. Before you Judge try figuring out what happened in their life to make them the way they are. You just might be surprised as to what you find out. Something you would not know without getting to know them first. Treat people how you want them to treat you. Be the voice for others that You wished were there when you needed it. Be the light for those who are in the dark. Be the person you wanted everyone else in the world to be. Fix the problems with yourself before trying to Fix someone else Before you judge someone based on their past, Look at EVERYTHING you have EVER done that was wrong, bad, ugly and see if you even have the space to talk.
Everyone is Human. No one is better than the next. Love each other and let others be the humans they are. We only have one life. Are you going to live your life hating others and judging everyone for every little thing they do, or will you live your life with Love and Compassion. And forgive those who made mistakes. Are you going to be apart of the Solution or the Problem in someone's life? ~Kyndra
